Q: I am 36 years old, unmarried, and the last time I was in a stable relationship was six years ago. I have a great job, lots of friends and a stable income. I love my life. The problem is that I want to settle down soon and have a family – but I want it to be with the right man. I want a man who is faithful, family oriented, honest, kind and as hardworking as I am. The only men I keep meeting are these typical Nairobian, sports-loving bar flies who think that all women want them and therefore they don’t need to work hard at self-improvement. My friends say I am too picky and that I will never find a man meets all of this criteria. On the other hand, I know I will be unhappy if I don’t settle down soon. How do I get out of this conundrum?